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AVOID SEX PLEASE

Sex is Dangerous especially if you are Single. Avoid Sex. It is Demonic. It is Unholy, ungodly and Evil. Sex was meant for Married Couples. Beware, lest you contact STDs, HIV/AIDs etc.

  1. Find out what pleases the Lord . This is a

command straight out of Ephesians 5:10, and

is part of what it means to live a life worthy

of our calling as Christians, and part of what

it means to live a life of love, just as Christ

loved us.

  1. Find out what God’s will for your life is. 1

Thessalonians 4:3-5 says, “It is God’s will that

you should be sanctified: that you should avoid

sexual immorality; that each of you should learn

to control his own body in a way that is holy and

honorable, not in passionate lust like the

heathen, who do not know God;” It doesn’t get

much clearer than that!

  1. The battle begins in the mind. You need to

know what God says about sex and trust

what God says about sex. You need to be

careful what you fill your minds with.

Imagination is often the hot-bed where sin is

hatched. Martin Luther once said about

sexual desires, “You can’t stop birds from

flying over your head, but you can stop them

from making nests in your hair.”

  1. Pray (It is a spiritual battle too). Depend on

God, on the power of His Holy Spirit to

strengthen you in this battle. (Matthew 6:13;

2 Timothy 2:22; James 5:16)

  1. Don’t put yourself in situations where you

will be easily tempted. There is little point

praying that God would not lead you into

temptation, then walking straight into a

tempting situation.

  1. Remember God is watching. You are never

completely out of sight. Someone can always

see you. Ya! You can’t hide. Be truthful to yourself! Flee!

  1. Wield the axe. Jesus says in Matthew 5, if

your eye or hand causes you to sin, gouge

them out and throw them away, because

eternal life is at stake. So if the internet,

magazines, TV, Pornography or peer groups are causing

you to sin; wield the axe. Chop away those

things that tempt you.

  1. Talk about sex (accountability) . You can’t

fight this alone. You need God’s help and you

need help from God’s people too. Don’t always talk about sex wrongly, you may be sexually arouse!

  1. You are not alone. It can be helpful to know

you are not the only person who has ever

been tempted this way. “No temptation has

seized you except what is common to man” (1

Corinthians 10:13a)

  1. You CAN resist, Ya. “God is faithful; He will not let

you be tempted beyond what you can bear” (1

Corinthians 10:13b).

  1. Know that God provides a way out. “But when

you are tempted, he will also provide a way out

so that you can stand up under it” (1

Corinthians 10:13c).

  1. Count yourself dead to sin and alive to God.

Christians are people who have died to sin

(knowing that sin leads to death), and now

live for God and righteousness, knowing that

this leads to eternal life (Romans 6:11-14).

  1. Remember the cross. Jesus died for our sins,

including our sexual sins.

  1. Remember Jesus is coming back. We will all

have to give an account for our lives, even

our sex life.

  1. Memorise Scripture. When Jesus was

tempted in the desert, he fired Scripture back

at the devil (Matthew 4:1-11). Having God’s

Word in the forefront of your mind can help

you too.

  1. Weariness and sadness often leads to sin.

Learn to know yourself. Know when you are

weak and susceptible to temptation.

  1. Struggling is a good sign. Keep fighting and

don’t give in.

  1. Be careful what you wear. Modesty is good

for you and good for others too.

  1. Forgiveness is available. If you sin sexually

you can still be forgiven, such is the power of

the cross of Christ. So repent, turn back to

God and live for Him.

Sex

SEX AND THE SWEETNESS

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BEST ENGAGEMENT PERIOD

Normal  Engagement period should be less than a year, call it 6 months, not more than 3 years. 

The period during engagement supposed to be less than one year

you don’t have to prolong the engagement to three years or more,

This wil

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Premarital Sex

stop the woman time of getting married stop the woman

from becoming what she wans to b, so keping the woman that

long is very very bad you need marry the woman for sure the

woman need some love, some seriousness, you must b very

serious with her that in due course you will agreed to marry her it

is not something that you put on the marriage/engagement for so

long we’re during the process the woman become old and she

wouldn’t be attracted to any other man again so prolonging the

marriage or engagement would destroy the girls future because

you may end up marrying another woman and leave her alone and

that is very very bad . in my advice I advise that you should not

engage a woman 4 more than 6 months before marriage. this very

dating relationship courtship or engagement period should be

short. There should be nothing like sex you should not sleep

together you got to b very careful, she may want to attract you or

whatever she may want to seduce you but you are the man, you

need to be very very careful so as to make the marriage come to

pass without premarital Sex, my advice to you today is to be

careful of who tells you that he loves you and deeply inside is Lust,

he is really getting you easily engaging, he easily catch up with you

just to get what he wants… and that is sex and finally got what he

wanted from you , he would drop you, he would dump you just like

a refuge shit, gosh so one need to be very very careful when it

comes to engagement, when it comes to relationship, when it

comes to dating, and when it comes to matters we need to be very

very careful so from today onward if you have dated him for more

than 3 years if you understand my English Babe please please

leave. Very much for he is not serious with you no matter the

condition I mean no matter the condition no matter how the issue

is, you should leave. ya! because he is not serious you need to

look for a better man because he is standing as a stumbling block

as an obstacle and then drive to your success n wish to destroy

God’s plan for you. because so many people are looking for your

hand in marriage but he is dead trying to delay your future so you

have to do something about it this time that its not too late, now

that you are landed, you are still attractive, you are not old, now

that you are still looking pretty because during this time/yrs that

you are with him (Green disease), your destiny is being thwart by

him. # MyAdvice

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